Frequently, the most appropo statements show up while I am just surfing around. Thank goodness, I stopped and looked this morning. This one, "The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.” ~Maureen Dowd" strikes me as something I need to keep in mind. The desire to be a part of the group, causes me to fail in holding myself above the expectations of others. Just needed a reminder to look after myself!